I just wanted to tell you what my trauma was and see if maybe you have any trauma around food too. Is this something that you might be struggling with? And if so, maybe just thinking about it might make you go, "Oh, yeah."
Weekly Confidence Warrior Anthem: Jessie J
What It's like Being in an Abusive Relationship
*Trigger warning* Abuse in a relationship When I was 17 and homeless I dated a 30-year-old man who abused me for two years. In this video and blog post, I shared what it's like to be in an abusive relationship, how it related to my low self-esteem, and how you can help someone who is in that situation.
Weekly Confidence Warrior Anthem: Meghan Trainor/LunchMoney Lewis
I Am Fat - How to Be Confident and Love Your Body at Any Size | Victoria Welsby | TEDxStanleyPark
Last year Americans spent $66 billion dollars on trying to become thinner. What if we spent less time, money and energy on the pursuit of thinness and instead focused on the things that actually matter? What if we could learn to love our bodies exactly as they are today? Fat, thin, tall, short, mullet-sporting or leopard print thong wearing; we are all worthy and fabulous.
Death, Sickness and Fatphobia
Doctor proud to be fatphobic
I have a video on YouTube “Are You Fatphobic and Don’t Know It?”.
The dislikes on the video far outweigh the likes. Obviously, right?! When a fat person talks about fatphobia the trolls come out to play.
Would you dance in public in your bikini?
Diet Culture and the Holidays
Fat IS Fabulous
In our society fat is seen as bad. Being fat is worse than someone who doesn’t indicate while changing lanes, worse than being a bad tipper, worse than being someone who tries to get on the train before you get off. Why is this? Why is fat demonized? I was determined to find out!
I surveyed 100 people on their views on fatness and the results were incredibly interesting
How to do stuff alone
Sassy comebacks for when people are talking shit about your body
One of the badass members of my private Facebook group got shamed by a stranger in the grocery store.
"I just went to the store for lunch and picked up a bag of chips. A lady I've never met before felt it was appropriate to say "you don't need that" as I put them in my hand basket."
BITCH, WHAT?!
How To Be Self Confident
Confidence can be haaard. My confidence used to be in the pits of the Mariana Trench and when I was there I could see no way out, even if intellectually I knew I should “just feel better”. Check out these five things that really helped me increase my self confidence (in my mind and my body) and maybe they’ll help make you realise how freaking badass you are too!
Why are we so scared of fat?
Travel alone and fat? No problemo!
Can you intentionally lose weight and be body positive?
I got an excellent question from a reader:
"I need to lose weight due to health reasons. Partly because I have thyroid-issues, but also because I am on certain medications that lead to fluid retention that is worsened due to my size.HOW IN THE WORLD do I strive towards being body positive, stopping the dieting-bullshit and accepting myself, WHILST trying to lose weight?!"
Why I was happy when my boyfriend told me he wasn’t attracted to me
I always got the impression my partner of 6 years just wasn’t that into me. Let me re-phrase, just not that into my looks. My suspicion was confirmed 4 years in when he told me that he didn’t find me as attractive because I had put on a little weight. Walking in the park at winter when he shamefully told me his secret, I assured him I would “become better”, I would lose weight.
I am a fraud - I hate my body
- I am a fraud, I hate my body.
- I am lucky I have a boyfriend the way my body is, I'm surprised he can stomach looking at me.
- I am always looking at people online, comparing myself to them and knowing I don't measure up.
- When I am introduced to new people I know they are thinking "she is ugly and fat".
- I think I am going to get fired from my job any day now, they will realise hiring me was a mistake.
- I would look so much better if I just lost weight, I hate myself that I can't.
- My partner says I am beautiful, but he is just saying that to be nice.
- I am not worthy.