Body Image Shame vs. Body Dysmorphic Disorder

Body Image Shame vs. Body Dysmorphic Disorder

TLDR: Body shame is an emotional feeling state, and BDD is a clinical disorder defined by time-consuming compulsions and intrusive obsessions; it’s a category of OCD. Body shame can be incredibly painful and leads to things like social withdrawal, whereas BDD leads to rigid behavioural/cognitive loops and significant disruption in work, school, or relationships.

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Distinguishing between a painful emotion, a clinical condition, and internalized societal pressure can be tricky. 

For those who struggle with body image shame, the question can arise: “Am I to the point of having body dysmorphic disorder (BDD)?” Others may wonder if how they are feeling is actually a deep internalization of anti-fat bias. But still, can’t seem to shake the belief that their body is inferior even though intellectually they know it’s likely driven by bias. 

Let’s break down what BDD is and how it’s different from body shame, and also discuss the influence of anti-fatness on both. 

TW: brief mentions of EDs and suicide.

What is Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)?

  • BDD is a formal psychiatric diagnosis, affecting around 1.7 - 2.9% of people.

  • It involves becoming intensely preoccupied with a perceived flaw in your appearance that other people either don’t notice at all or see as very minor. Common areas include the nose, skin, or hair. Weight can be a focus; however, it’s not often the top concern and often occurs with other areas of concern. 

  • BDD is part of the obsessive-compulsive and related disorders family, sharing the cycle of intrusive preoccupations and repetitive behaviours seen in OCD. In BDD, that cycle centres specifically on appearance.

  • People with BDD can spend 3 - 8 hours a day doing compulsive behaviours and being in cognitive loops related to their appearance, such as checking, comparing, grooming, or seeking reassurance. 

  • People with BDD may also have differences in visual processing. For example, the brain may hyperfocus on one particular feature in themselves and others rather than taking in the face or body as a whole and assessing themselves holistically. 

  • Cognitive distortions are also a feature. These can include interpreting other people’s facial expressions as threatening or judgemental. 

  • On average, people have poor insight into their BDD. Around one-third are completely convinced that the perceived flaw is actually there.

  • BDD can have a huge impact on someone’s life. Around 30% of people may become unable to leave their home because of their symptoms.

  • The suicide risk is extremely high. Up to 80% report suicidal thoughts, and around 24–28% report attempting suicide.

  • Anti-fatness and narrow beauty ideals can help shape what someone becomes preoccupied with, such as their stomach or body size, just as other beauty standards can influence concerns about things like the nose, skin, or hair. But BDD has a complex biopsychosocial cause, so beauty standards or anti-fatness aren't the sole cause.

 

What is Body Image Shame?

  • Body image shame isn't a formal psychiatric diagnosis. It's something many people experience, and around 75% of people report some level of body dissatisfaction.

  • Unlike BDD, it usually doesn't involve a compulsive loop or hours-long ritual around appearance.

  • People generally recognize these thoughts and feelings as self-critical evaluations, often shaped by societal expectations and beauty standards.

  • Body shame can be really distressing, but it doesn't necessarily stop someone from leaving the house, going to work, socializing, or living their life.

  • Negative thoughts about your body are generally easier to redirect and don't have the same compulsive quality as BDD.

  • Anti-fatness and narrow beauty ideals often fuel body shame, and in many cases, these social pressures are a major reason people develop negative feelings about their bodies.

 

How Are Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) and Body Shame The Same?

  • Both can involve a lot of distress about appearance, including feelings of shame and embarrassment.

  • Both can involve negative thoughts about your body and becoming preoccupied with how you look.

  • Both can lead to things like comparing yourself to other people, checking your body, avoiding situations, hiding or covering parts of your body, or seeking reassurance.

  • Both can lead to people seeking solutions to “fix” their flaws with surgery, cosmetic procedures, and intentional weight loss

  • Both can have a significant impact on mental health and contribute to things like depression and social anxiety.

  • And both can be influenced by how other people treat or judge us, including experiences of stigma and discrimination.

How Does Anti-fat Bias Affect BDD?

  • Anti-fat bias can shape the specific focus of BDD preoccupations, for example, concern over stomach size/shape. The cause of BDD is complex and can include anti-fat bias, but it also includes biology, psychology, and other social factors.

  • Weight-related fixations in BDD are linked to higher overall distress and suicide risk.

  • Stigma converts external prejudice into internal appearance obsessions, and this also includes other oppressive systems like racism, ageism, ableism, etc. E.g., racism promotes smaller noses and straight hair. 

  • Understanding anti-fat bias can reduce distress; however, additional support is often needed, including BDD-specific therapy and SSRIs.

How does Anti-fat Bias Affect Body Shame?

  • Anti-fat bias directly fuels body shame by teaching people to equate body size with personal worthlessness.

  • People often internalize anti-fatness, which leads to body image shame where they compare themselves to others and conclude their body is bad or defective.

  • Anti-fatness, which is originally external to people, then becomes internalized and feels incredibly true.

  • Learning how to survive anti-fatness (and other beauty ideals) can significantly reduce feelings of shame

 

Body shame can be deeply distressing, especially when we've spent years absorbing messages that tell us our bodies are wrong, unattractive, or less worthy. And recognizing that those messages come from anti-fatness doesn't necessarily make them disappear overnight. At the same time, BDD is a clinical diagnosis that involves intense obsessions, compulsions, and significant disruption to your life. Understanding whether you’re experiencing shame due to societal expectations or due to a mental health condition can give you the helpful information to decide the next steps and get the support that actually fits what you're experiencing. 

 
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About the Author:

Vinny Welsby (they/them) is a fat activist, diversity, equity and inclusion leader and founder of Fierce Fatty and Weight Inclusive Consulting. They have been a leading voice in dismantling anti-fat bias and diet culture for over a decade, a TEDx speaker, a podcast host, and a master's student in psychotherapy. Vinny is trans-non-binary and is dedicated to shifting how society views fat and queer bodies through education and compassion. When Vinny isn’t talking about DEI stuff, they love snuggling with their dog, cross-stitching swear words and singing in a queer pop choir.

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